Heather & Pedro’s Offbeat, DIY Multicultural Maryland Wedding at the Tea Barn at Fair Hill

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It amuses me sometimes how some couples will write a few sentences and others write novels when I ask for more details on their wedding day. For me, I was the noveling writing type – I couldn’t STOP talking and writing about our wedding day because we just poured SO MUCH of ourselves in to it. I felt compelled to have to share every item we made, every decision we delicately made, every detail we had discussions over. Heather is a bride after my own heart – still excited about everything they did for their Maryland wedding. So a fair warning to you all that this one is LONG today – but there are just too many fun details that I could cut back. Sorry I’m not sorry.

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We had initially discussed a courthouse wedding, which was totally his preference. But then I started thinking about wanting our people there, and that led to thinking of all of the fun things a couple can do for their wedding, and since he’s super easygoing he was fine with going for a more traditional type of wedding. Autumn has always been a really amazing time of year for me – I love the colors of the trees, especially. The rustic/vintage theme is, obviously, super popular right now, and when I went looking for ideas for venues, it just fit in with the Autumn bit so well! I showed him some ideas and he loved them, so we ran with it.

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When we were looking for venues, a lot of places were asking for thousands of dollars for just a few hours of time, and when you’re DIYing and hate to ask for help, that window of time just isn’t feasible. We chose the Tea Barn because you get to keep the place for three days (Friday through Sunday…I hear you can add Thursday as well for an additional fee), decorate it and use the space as you please, and it was insanely cheap. When we booked in 2013, it was $400 for three day rental, $150 for the adjoining paddock area, $10 reservation fee and $35 alcohol permit fee. It turned out we did require a lot of help, however, as my parents did most of the set up themselves and a bunch of us worked hard to break it all down.

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Details are important to me, and Pedro didn’t really give me much in the way of unique Portuguese traditions so I improvised. For example, I found pictures of old maps of Maryland and Portugal and we folded our paper airplanes out of the printed out maps. I started to make a traditional portuguese fiance handkerchief for him but I gave up on it half way through because I wasn’t too pleased with my handiwork. I might finish it some day haha.

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Stationery: we got our invitations and rsvps from Minted, made maps using art from someone found on Fiverr and printed by Vistaprint. Most of our signage was made using clip art I purchased from Digicrafts on Etsy and our programs were made with templates purchased from Purple Trail.

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Click inside for SO MUCH MORE of Pedro & Heather’s eclectic, Maryland barn wedding!

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Elyse & Shawn’s Surprise Proposal in Georgetown with Ben & Jerry’s!

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Kicking off the week with a sweet little surprise proposal down by the Georgetown Waterfront. Shawn asked eKate Photography to be on hand to capture him proposing to his then girlfriend, Elyse, by using a personalized container of Ben & Jerry’s (uhhh yum). Not really sure how else you could make a surprise proposal even better, than with a custom Ben & Jerry’s container (or maybe that’s just me). Happy Monday Romancers! Stay warm out there.

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LINK LOVE and My Top 5 Moments of 2014 (& some big news for 2015)


2014 was a pretty crazy year. We launched a lot of things and did a lot of things with Capitol Romance that I never really dreamed possible. If someone had told me in 2011 (when I started this blog) that I not only would still be blogging, but would have grown the blog into 3 separate businesses … well I probably would have laughed in their face. It’s really amazing what you can do when you put your mind to something AND surround yourself with awesome people that help get you there. So for today I wanted to first share some LINK LOVE and then countdown the Top 5 Moments of 2014 for Capitol Romance. Then I’ll round it out with some BIG NEWS that I’ve been waiting to share with everyone.


The Celia Grace Trunk Show at Soliloquy Bridal Couture lasts just 2 more days! Don’t miss your chance to try on & hopefully purchase a beautiful, fairtrade wedding dress!

Richmond Tourism & Say I Do! are teaming up to giveaway a DREAM wedding to one lucky LGBT couple! Check it out!

You can now access The Blogcademy online!! Check it out.

Danielle of DPNAK Weddings rounds up some floral bouquet alternatives for bridesmaids. Love this.

Learn to make & sew your own striped pillows with this tutorial!

Second. My Top 5 Moments of 2015!!

#5. Launching the Capitol Romance Classifieds

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In just 2 weeks, our classifieds section turns 1 year old! We get new posts each week and I hope our readers find it as valuable as I thought it would be for them! Keep buying, sharing, saving, and going local when it comes to your DC wedding!

#4. Launching Fuel DC


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In early 2014 we decided to team up with Studio DBI & Fortique to launch a series of workshops that could help other creatives and small business owners better and grow their business. We hosted 2 events last year and hope to plan some more for this year! If you have any ideas for events – let us know!

#3. Attending the Blogcademy

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In October I attended my first ever business workshop. I had (slightly) obsessively followed The Blogcademy for a long time and never really dreamed that I would be able to actually go. But then the headmistresses offered a class in my very own city and I was the very first person to sign up! (no joke, Kat confirmed this). I learned SO MUCH that weekend and can’t wait to put what I learned to good use for 2015.

#2. #PopUpRomance Collaboration for 2014 Pride Weekend


During the Capital Pride parade & weekend this past year, I teamed up with my favs, Pop Wed Co & the DC MEET Market to create the first ever #PopUpRomance celebration. 1-part giveaway, 1-part vow renewal, and ALL parts awesome, this day was one I will NEVER forget. We got to meet SO MANY awesome couples that day that shared messages of LOVE with us and then we got to help Rose & Nicole renew their vows. The amazing day ended with getting to march in the Pride Parade. Seriously. Best day ever.

#1. Launching the Capitol Romance DIY Wedding Workshops

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Sometimes I can’t believe these still happened. The DIY wedding workshops were a tiny idea I had that I never thought would come to fruition. I didn’t think I had the balls to do it and really didn’t know how to get started. But then a conversation at one of my meetups quickly turned into signing a contract to host 5 DIY wedding workshops in 2014 and boom – things just ballooned from there. Amazing local artists/vendors agreed to join me on my crazy new journey and host the workshops, and amazing local companies agreed to provide sponsored items for each of the events. I was (and continue to be) eternally grateful for all the amazing vendors that helped make the workshops a reality.

We’re planning on hosting another slate of DIY Wedding Workshops for 2015 – so be on the lookout for more information soon! And if you have an idea for a workshop, would like to host a workshop, or want to be involved SOME way – please email me!!


Recapping it like that makes me slightly overwhelmed for how I will top it in 2015. But I got some ideas and some collaborations already in the works and really who cares if I don’t top 2014? It’s all about trying new things and pushing myself to make Capitol Romance the best it can be for me and YOU. So let’s get cracking on 2015. With this year comes some BIG business and personal changes for me because … well … the Capitol Romance family is growing in 2 ways. First, with a baby (!), as Andy & I are super excited to announce that we are expecting our first in May of this year.

And so obviously things will be a bit different for me this year (in ways I can’t even imagine or plan for) and so I have decided to officially hire someone to my Capitol Romance Wedding Coordination business to help me with my Spring/Summer 2015 weddings and officially take on her own clients under the Capitol Romance umbrella. Meet Alesha – our new wedding coordinator associate!!

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She is so awesome and I cannot wait to work with her this year, and share her with my awesome clients too! Lots more coming on this and if you are looking for a wedding coordinator for your wedding, be sure to check out our new structure/plans!

So yeah. 2015 is going to be crazy.

And I just can’t wait for all of it. It will certainly be the craziest year of my life to date, but I can’t wait to take it on and of course, share it all with you. Thanks for reading this far (if you made it this far) and stay tuned for a lot more exciting things coming out from me these next few months! As always, I’ll continue to try my hardest to give YOU my readers the best content and resources possible to help you plan your DC area wedding AND have a happy, loving life together.

xo, Bree

Melissa & Trent’s Sparkling Gold Winery Wedding in Virginia

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Usually Virginia winery weddings lend themselves to the super rustic, but that’s not AT ALL what Melissa & Trent wanted for their wedding. They upped the chic factor with a “light” theme using a color scheme of black, white, and glittery gold. With some rad glitter heels, a champagne tower, an awesome marquee LOVE light, and lots of personal touches, Melissa & Trent had a gorgeous wedding day that was completely their own.

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We chose Cana for the gorgeous view, and the flexibility of the space.  It was a fancy wedding with all the benefits of the outdoors, but not the inconvenience of it.
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DIY Inspiration: Handmade “Will You Be My Bridesmaid?” Gift Box & Keepsake

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Sharing a sweet & simple DIY post today thanks to one of our favorite area photographers, Cynthia Shipp Photography (ps check out her STUNNING new website – including an adorable video). Her friend asked her to be a bridesmaid in her wedding with a special “DIY Bridesmaid Box” after seeing the idea originally on Wedding Chicks. I thought this was such a fun idea because it not only served a purpose, but could also be a gift to your wedding party attendants and a keepsake that they will actually use. Check out the details!

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From Cynthia’s friend (and bride-to-be):

So… about the bridesmaid box. I knew I wanted to do something cute to ask my most special women to be involved in my wedding. I wanted them all to feel special and really, truly appreciated. Then I found this DIY bridesmaid box via Pinterest. Loved it! So I took the idea and made it my own.

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First stop was Michaels – I found these cute wooden boxes for just a few bucks apiece. I bought some sandpaper to smooth down the edges and some simple “antique white” spray paint. A little sanding, a couple layers of paint, a little more sanding and voila! A pretty, polished box!

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Next, a wrote up little cards with the information I wanted to share, like when and where the wedding would be, who was involved, criteria for choosing a bridesmaid dress and a little about the bridesmaid tradition. I was pleased with how they turned out. :)

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Next, just a little gift. I bought a nail polish for us all to wear, but honestly, I think most of us totally forgot about it! In retrospect, I would have done perhaps a lip gloss or a pair of earrings. I do really love this nailpolish though – L’Oreal Sweet Nothings. It’s the perfect soft pink for natural-looking nails!

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Next, to pull it all together! I added a tiny clothespin to hold my cards together and some simple brown tissue paper to fill in the empty space. Finally, I tied up the boxes with a little twine and added a paint swatch in one of my wedding colors. I wanted the boxes to convey the style of the wedding – simple, natural and a little bit vintage. These were lots of fun to put together and really got me into the DIY wedding mood!

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Voila! A perfect DIY bridesmaid gift that doesn’t break the bank, is completely reusable, and provides a personalized touched to asking some of the most important people in your life, to be a part of your wedding day! Thanks again to Cynthia Shipp Photography for sharing & capturing such being images of the box.

Kelly & Tree’s Vintage, Rock N’ Roll Virginia Wedding in Yorktown

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Photo: Kian McKeller & Aimee Custis Photography

“Every single aspect of my wedding was so hand tailored with such love. It was completely beyond amazing. Everything from my catering, my decorating, my ceremony was all done by people that I know and love.”

We’re getting back into the swing of things for 2015 with our first real Virginia wedding feature of the year. Kelly & Tree planned a completely DIY wedding created entirely by themselves, their family, and friends. And they did it in some SERIOUS vintage styling. These bridesmaids dresses are ones to remember (though unfortunately no longer for sale on Etsy) – they are GORGEOUS. And Kelly ROCKED her vintage hair & dress. Check it out!

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Each of the paper flowers I made had button centers from my mom’s button jar so each one came from a coat or sweater that some one in my family wore at some point. They are made out of scrap paper books which are comprised of several different patterns in coordinating colors so it made it really fun and easy to mix and match while still having a really cohesive feel. I went with dusty blue and yellow because I’m not really a fan of traditionally fall colors.

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We wanted to use the freight shed in Yorktown because of its beautiful view of the river its also where we took our engagement photos. Its the beach we spend our summers at. It was very important to me to not spend an arm and a leg on anything I love the idea that something doesn’t have to be expensive to be beautiful. my husband is a local police officer and I am a bar manager so neither of us wanted to break the bank. I got my dress and shoes off of ebay! One of my favorite details is a vintage mirror from the 1920 that I found at the habitat for humanity store for $20 a friend of mine painted it with the blue that matched our colors but distressed it so the original gold came through and repurposed into a frame to hold my seating assignments.

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Capitol Romance Best of 2014: Best Washington DC Weddings of the Year

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When I started this blog it was my mission to find Washington DC weddings that did not fit the traditional, opulent norm of what most people think of when they hear the term “DC wedding”. I wanted the offbeat, the nontraditional, the funky, and the downright awesome – and I am ecstatic to say that I have been able to find ALL of these. Maryland & Virginia were amazing this year – delivering some of the most beautiful and personalized weddings I’ve seen …. but the variety we got from our DC proper weddings – well, I just have to admit that DC killed it. We had DC themed details, a lightsaber fight outside the Capitol, two brides in red, a truly modern affair, and a legit Mardi Gras style parade – just to name our favorites.

We’re counting down the Top 5 Washington DC weddings of 2014, but be sure to check out ALL the amazing weddings we featured this year, here.

#5. Kim & Ryan’s Offbeat, Washington DC Themed Wedding at Mt Vernon Inn

Ok so I cheated  a little with this one – Mt. Vernon Inn isn’t technically in DC proper, but every single detail of this wedding was Washington, DC themed (mini pie favors from a Georgetown pie shop, DC map invitations) – including the Capital Bikehsare groomscake, that I just love so much.

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#4. Katy & Shamena’s Intimate Dupont Circle Elopement in Washington DC

It’s not a round up of best DC weddings without highlighting one that occurs between two people that don’t actually live in DC. Thanks to our marriage laws, DC gets TONS of couples from all over the map that just want to be married. As these lovely ladies put it: “we came to DC because we didn’t just want a civil union; we wanted to be married”.

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#3. Alexis & Jason’s Modern Washington DC Wedding at the W Hotel

In a complete 180 from the others on this roundup, Alexis & Jason upped the modern factor with their stunning DC wedding at the W. Everything about this DC wedding screamed chic and modern and I love how much fun everyone seemed to have.


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#2. Katja & Alex’s Offbeat & Intimate Washington DC Wedding at the Phoenix Park Hotel

This was such a close call between #2 and #1 – Katja & Alex completely personalized their wedding day with mentions of Zombie Apocalypses in their ceremony, stunning vintage attire, Grooms in kilts, German rituals, lego ring holders, and the ultimate DC wedding picture: a Star Wars light saber fight in front of the Capitol building. Yup, this wedding ruled.


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#1. Zach & Maria’s Offbeat, Personalized Washington DC Wedding at Hillyer Art Center

Zach & Maria packed SO MUCH of their personalities into their wedding. Janet Reno masks, a New Orleans-style Brass Band, family skits, a push-up contest (which the bride joined in on!) and my absolute favorite: a legit Mardi Gras style parade that took the guests from the ceremony to dinner. Masks, umbrellas, feathers, and a band leading the way. This wedding was just SO cool – I wish I could have been there!


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Celia Grace Fair Trade Wedding Gowns ~ Trunk Show at Soliloquy Bridal Couture

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Celia Grace is hosting a trunk show at the DC area’s Soliloquy Bridal this week and these gowns are not only gorgeous, but fair trade and eco-friendly too! Celia Grace wedding dresses are handcrafted using vintage-inspired lace, hand woven silks, and stunning bead and detail work. Celia Grace wedding dresses are all made in safe, fair, and empowering Fair Trace conditions and each dress sold gives something back, locally. To find out more, read here.

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When you wear a Celia Grace wedding dress you are adorning yourself in love and helping to create the kind of world we all want to live in – one where people respect each other and protect our precious planet.

Each dress has a story all its own and each dress helps with fair trade social consciousness and environmental sustainability. Celia Grace works with small sewing groups who fairly and safely employ local tailors and seamstresses. They were even featured on Bridal Musings! But don’t just take our word for it, check out a few more stunning images of these gorgeous wedding gowns.

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So be sure to swing by Soliloquy Bridal this week and check out the Celia Grace Trunk Show!!

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Capitol Romance Best of 2014: The Best Virginia Weddings of the Year

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We’re back with our Top Virginia Weddings of 2014! Pop-up books, light sabers, boho flowers, a bride in black, and the RADDEST polkadot bridesmaids dresses. Virginia kicked ASS this year when it came to offbeat & alternative weddings in the area. Let’s break it down.

#5. Abby & Logan’s Thrifted, DIY Travel Themed Barn Wedding in Virginia

The ultimate barn wedding mixed with SO MANY personalized details. Abby & Logan personally handcrafted each part of their wedding. It was awesome.


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#4. Alexa & Tucker’s Whimsical, Boho Wedding at Bluemont Winery in Virginia

Whimsical boho to a T – Alexa & Tucker are a gorgeous couple (and I unknowingly/consequently went to highschool with Tucker!) and their flowers were a perfect compliment to this Fall winery wedding in Virginia.

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#3. Tim & Megan’s Offbeat Film & Literature Themed Wedding in Virginia

Pop-up books based on the couple’s favorite books & films. I mean it doesn’t get cooler than that for alternative wedding centerpieces.

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#2. Jadene & Freddy’s Offbeat Black & White Wedding at Rosemont Manor in Virginia

A bride in a black dress with peacock feathers for bridesmaids bouquets. This Virginia wedding was SO fun and offbeat. Loved it.

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#1. Kat & Dave’s 1950s Inspired, Rockabilly Wedding in Virginia

Rockabilly decor inspiration, a tattooed bride with pincurls, and bridesmaids in the MOST DARLING polka dot bridesmaids dresses (with purple crinoline under them to boot!!). Kat & Dave stole my heart with their 1950s themed Virginia wedding.


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