Sponsor Love: Check out the awesome coming from our sponsors this week!

Kicking off this Friday with a little sponsor love. We are SO excited to have a handful of new sponsors this week thanks to a CyberMonday deal we ran. So check out the seriously awesome things that are coming out from our amazing sponsors this week!

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Catherine & Kevin’s Intimate Fall Wedding at a Private Home in Fredericksburg, VA

Today we have a perfectly intimate Fall wedding from Wolfcrest Photography! Catherine & Kevin wanted to keep things smaller and intimate (around 70 guests total) and the Gari Meclhes Belmont House & Studio was the perfect space! This real Virginia wedding includes some pretty awesome vendors – so though they kept it intimate and a bit more casual, they did not hold back on the beautifully designed details! Anthomanic killed it on the bouquets and centerpieces and the whole thing was beautifully pulled together and executed by Miraculous Events! Check it all out below!

Catherine & Kevin’s Intimate, Fall Wedding at Belmont Studio in Fredericksburg, Virginia

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Photographer: Wolfcrest Photography | Venue: Gari Melchers Home and Studio at Belmont | Florist: Anthomanic | Wedding Planner + Coordinator: Miraculous Events | Catering: Caroline Street Catering | Makeup + Hair Stylist: BobbyPins & Blush | DJ: In Step Entertainment | Officiant: Weddings by Ginny | Cake: Happy Tiers by Lisa

How they met:

Kevin and I first met in middle school!  We were friends throughout high school (had some mutual friends as well).  We didn’t start dating, however, until our Freshman year of college. We’d be dating for ten years prior to getting married :)

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On their venue selection:

After some debate and visits to other venues, we settled on having the ceremony and reception at Gari Melcher’s estate, Belmont in Fredericksburg.  I think we both felt the space to be a good fit for our smaller, intimate wedding (around 70 guests total).  I also went to Mary Washington and Belmont is affiliated with the school. It was important to Kevin and I both that the wedding have a more casual, less traditional feel so an outdoor space seemed to fit the bill.  I, in particular, was drawn to the vintage, southern feel of the place in addition to the great gardens.  Thought it was a good match partially because I knew it would fit in with my plans to use mason jars in the decor!

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Click inside for SO MUCH MORE of Catherine & Kevin’s beautiful, intimate Fall Virginia wedding!

Let’s Get Personal: Being a Bridesmaid Means You Do Whatever the Bride Wants

Writing a quick personal post for the afternoon before I get my butt to the gym and then ready for tonight’s Capitol Romance meetup! A few weeks ago I was having some intense email discussions with a friend and one of the topics we were writing about was being a bridesmaid. Now, let me just admit that being a type-A, control freak, opinionated wedding blogging/coordinating lady does not exactly lend itself to being the best, most easy-going bridesmaid. So let’s just get that out there now. But during the convo, my friend made the statement that, “being a bridesmaid means you just do whatever the bride wants.” And it just STUCK with me. I couldn’t get over this notion, so much so that I decided to blog about it and get some insight from you, my fabulous readers. So let’s get personal….

Let’s Get Personal: Being a Bridesmaid Means You Do Whatever the Bride Wants

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So as I mentioned above, being someone with an opinionated personality, I am not one to usually keep my mouth shut when I don’t agree with something. Even outside of being a bridesmaid, this is the way I am, as a friend, as a sister, as a wife – I personally feel that communication is key and if there is something worth saying, then say it! I think we could all benefit from being more honest and open with eachother.

Now, don’t get me wrong – this doesn’t mean I go around shouting insults in peoples’ faces or saying ANYthing and EVERYthing that is on my mind! This requires tact and consideration of peoples’ feelings and time spent deciding whether or not what you are about to say is worth the result it might cause. I’ve lost friends over my honesty because I just can’t simply be the type of person that looks on idly while things are happening that I don’t believe to be good or right. Believe me, sometimes I wish I could be that person – but I’ve accepted that I am not.

So how does this translate to being a bridesmaid? Well, if you’ve ever gotten married and had bridesmaids, or been one yourself, you know there are a lot of things that are asked the ‘maids! You will most likely need to purchase attire, shoes, hold some sort of bouquet, and possibly do (and purchase!) even more than that. You will potentially be asked to do and spend a lot.

So where do we draw the line here? Do brides really have the all-encompassing power to make all and any decisions and bridesmaids should just be expected to fall in line? Should I put my personality/self aside in honor of my friend’s big day or do I try to still maintain some semblance of myself? If I’ve never been that way as a friend, why should I suddenly start being that way as a bridesmaid? These are the things I often wonder and can’t help but think I am not alone in these thoughts.

I think what it mostly comes back to is the point that I made earlier: is what I want to say or what I am thinking worth the result it might create? Yes, it’s my friend’s big day and it should certainly be all about her and her partner – but when I am being asked to spend time, effort, and money on things, shouldn’t I get a say? I’ll continue to muse on it, because I am still really not sure.

What do you think Romancers? Should I just “suck it up” and do whatever the bride wants, or should I stand by my personal beliefs and be the type of person that I always am? Have you dealt with a similar situation before?


Giveaway: Washington DC Thank You Cards from Tabibi Design

Kicking off hump day with a GIVEAWAY! We are SO pumped to announce this awesome giveaway sponsored by one of our favs, Tabibi Design. Tina took a spin on a custom, Washington DC wedding invitation that she designed and made them into a rad thank you card design. And now we are giving away 2 A2 packs of 12 to one lucky winner!

Enter to Win Two 12 Packs of Washington DC Thank You Cards from Tabibi Design

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Each are a 12 pack set of A2 folded note cards with white envelopes. Use our nifty Rafflecopter widget below to enter! Just leave a comment, like Capitol Romance & Tabibi Design on Facebook and BOOM you are entered! Giveaway ends next Friday, December 13th!

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James & Olivia’s DIY, Rustic Fredericksburg, Virginia Bed & Breakfast Wedding

Olivia & James’ Rustic Fredericksburg Virginia wedding might look like “just another rustic wedding” on the surface – but there is really SO much more to this personalized, DIY wedding. They are both in the military and really wanted their wedding day to be small & intimate, including a Bed & Breakfast reception dinner and their small Jewish ceremony. They had a trolley take all the attendees around downtown Fredericksburg dinner and even stopped at a local ice cream shop to treat their guests — how awesome is this?! This is why I really love intimate weddings, because you can afford to really create some special, detailed moments for your guests.

Olivia, James & their family & friends made a TON of the details and decor in this wedding, including a stunning ribbon banner that hung above their dinner table! Olivia selflessly decided to donate her handmade details back to her vendors for future couples to us. Enjoy Olivia & James’ beautiful rustic Virginia wedding thanks to Erin Forehand Photography!

James & Olivia’s Rustic DIY Virginia Wedding at Lavender Heights Bed & Breakfast

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Photographer:  Erin Forehand Photography | Event Planner: Amore Events by Cody | Cake Designer: Cakes by Z | Caterer: FOODE | Event Venue: Lavender Heights Bed and Breakfast | Invitation Designer: Minted.com |Bouquets & Boutonnieres: DIYed | Ribbon Banner & Decorations: Handmade |  Submitted via Two Bright Lights

How they met:

In the age of technology, James and I met in a very old fashioned way, while volunteering at a nursing home in Fredericksburg, Virginia on Christmas Eve. James was there with his church; I was there with my Synagogue. As we walked together and visited with the residents, we took advantage of the opportunity to talk and get to know each other which eventually led to us exchanging e-mail addresses before departing. James worked at the Pentagon while I was home from Iraq visiting my family.

Shortly thereafter, the emails led to three-hour phone calls, which led to us watching movies on our laptops while talking on the phone. After two months of long distance dating, I returned home to visit my family and we finally had our first proper date. For the most part, it’s been a very long-distance relationship but we have managed to make it work.

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The proposal:

After a year of dating, we entered a Super Spartan race in Illinois with friends and after completing the grueling course, while covered head to toe in mud, James “officially” proposed to me. Planning our wedding in Fredericksburg was a challenge, while I was stationed in Indiana, James was deployed to Dubai, and because of our busy schedules we’d sometimes  go a week or so without speaking.

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Details on their wedding & wedding planning:

Though it was overwhelming at times, I am thankful that I found Cody at Amore Events in Charlottesville, Va., her experience and support were invaluable. She was always a text or a click away if I needed advice or just a little reassurance. She helped me find my wonderful photographer, Erin, and wedding planner, Karen.

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Click inside for the rest of Olivia & James’ beautiful rustic, DIY Virginia wedding ~ including that awesome, handmade ribbon banner over the reception space!

Ashley & Jason’s Manchester Bride Engagement Session in Richmond, VA

We’re back this afternoon with another adorable engagement session to share! This one comes to us from What A Lovely Photo and it features Ashley & Jason and their adorable dog under the Manchester Bridge in Richmond, VA! It also includes a really beautiful love story all from the bride to be. Be back tomorrow with an awesome wedding feature!

Ashley & Jason’s Manchester Bridge Engagement Session in Richmond, Virginia

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Photographer: What A Lovely Photo | Submitted via Two Bright Lights

Their love story:

Jason and my story begins back in September of 2009. I was living in Columbia, South Carolina after college and looking for a job in Richmond, where my at the time boyfriend had just been transferred. I got a call from Mapcom Systems and arrived for my interview on a Tuesday morning, talked with the CFO and some other folks before he told me he wanted me to meet Jason. When Jason walked in to the room there was instant attraction; butterflies I had always heard about but never felt. We spent a long time talking about traveling and our personal interests, completely disregarding the fact that I was on a job interview, almost as if we were on a first date. Shortly after talking with Jason, I was hired for the job on the spot and living in Richmond that October, with my boyfriend. I started work and instantly created a connection with a small group of friends in the office, Jason included, however he happened to be dating someone as well (who sat directly across from my cubicle) and because of that was always a little shy around me and somewhat distant.

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Over the next several months, both of us still in other relationships, Jason would always include me in email invites to lunch with the group or on skiing trips to Wintergreen; I always declined because of my dating situation, although I always wanted to be around him. Late that summer, my boyfriend was transferred again to North Carolina, and I stayed behind for my job and knew that long distance relationships were hard. Come October, one of our co-workers had a Halloween party. I had no idea who would be going, didn’t see Jason’s name on the evite RSVP list, yet decided to go anyways. I arrived at the party, had a beer and talked with some of my co-workers when I heard someone yell, “Taco is here”! (Jason came in second place in a taco eating contest in college and since has had an extreme obsession with Mexican food, dones a taco costume every Halloween and even has worn that costume in many a half marathons, hiking trips and it even made it to Iceland on a trip Jason took with his dad). Back to Halloween, once Jason arrived, I felt myself instantly come alive! We had such a fun time, more fun than I had had in as long as I could remember. I couldn’t remember the last time I had laughed as much as we did that night.

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Extremely hung over and tired from the night before, Jason asked me the next day if I wanted to go on a hike with him. He picked me up at my apartment and we had a long ride in his white Tacoma (which I always looked for every morning I pulled in the parking lot at work hoping he was in that day) and talked and talked and got to know each other on a level we had not yet done at work. We shared a beautiful (and grueling) hike together and then ate Subway on the tailgate of his truck and continued to talk and laugh and get to know each other more and more. We spent the next month or so hanging out, going on dates here and there but being fresh out of a relationship (and working right next to his ex-girlfriend) we both decided that maybe it would be best to slow down a bit and try this later.

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Click inside for the rest of Ashley & Jason’s beautiful Richmond, Virginia engagement session and love story!

Deena & Amir’s Washington DC Engagement Session on Capitol Hill

We are getting back into the swing of a FULL WEEK of blogging with not one, but two engagement features today! It’s been a REALLY long time since I’ve done a full week of blogging, so excuse me while I might be a bit rusty in this post-Thanksgiving, get-ready-for-Christmas, haze. I am trying not to feel overwhelmed, but I feel like I have SO much to do before this Holidays and only a few weekends to do it! Any one else feeling this way already?!

Well enough about me, let’s bring on the love with today’s first engagement session from Leslie Maron Photography. Leslie shares, “Deena & Amir are an adorable couple who will be getting married in May, 2014. Spending a beautiful fall morning with this awesome duo, it was clear to see how in love they truly are, and how they couldn’t stop smiling from ear to ear…it was super contagious”.

Deena & Amir’s Capitol Hill, Washington DC Engagement Pictures

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Photography: Leslie Maron Photography | Submitted via Two Bright Lights

About the couple & their DC engagement session:

Sharing a home on Capitol Hill, they really wanted to capture their love for their city, and of course, Amir’s baby, his vintage red bug. These two brought such personal style to their engagement session and were such naturals in front of the camera.

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Click inside for the rest of Deena & Amir’s beautiful Capitol Hill engagement pictures!

DIY Inspiration: Wedding Vendor Gratitude Box Ideas & Inspiration

We are back on the DIY track today again, thanks to our amazing editorial partner, LoveBuggs Weddings! Today Divinity is sharing some ideas and inspiration for DIY gift ideas for your wedding vendors!

DIY Inspiration: DIY Vendor Gift Ideas & “Gratitude Boxes”


[Divinity’s DIY Vendor Gift Box]

Hey Romancers, I’m back with a new DIY project!  I had some pretty amazing vendors for my wedding and I wanted to find a charming and creative way to thank them.  A lot of people feel that payment is enough thanks since they were hired to do a job.  But if your vendor goes above and beyond and you are pleased with the result, why not go the extra mile and show them just how happy you are? That is why I have put together a “Gratitude Box.”

Included are some fun items for the holidays; cozy socks, hot chocolate, chocolate bar, DIY chalkboard mugs, and a hand written thank you card.

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You can include whatever you like in your “Gratitude Box.” Or whatever you think your vendors might like! Check out these other two examples included some coffee & coffee accessories:


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Or some brownies & whiskey!

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 Another amazing idea is to send your vendors a gift from a subscription club such as Birch Box or Nature Box. These programs allow you to choose a monthly gift subscription for a low price.  So your vendors receive a nice surprise in the mail for the next few months.

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I hope you find this post helpful!


OK Romancers – what do you think!? What would you pack into your DIY Wedding Vendor Gratitude Box?

Virginia & Ron’s Personalized, DIY Virginia Farm Wedding

Cutting down a submission from An Endless Pursuit is nearly an impossible task. I want to include every. single. image. that they send my way! There is a reason they are one of our recommended DC wedding photography vendors, which if you haven’t seen before, you will quickly learn why. They can just capture emotion in its purest sense and it’s slightly intoxicating to look at. Their images are breathtaking (seriously) and they perfectly cultivate each wedding to perfectly reflect the couples they work with.

Virginia and Ron’s wedding is no different, as An Endless Pursuit captured all the elements of their beautiful, outdoor DIY wedding. Virginia & Ron blended cultures, DIY projects, personalized touches (Krispy Kreme favors!) and so many gorgeous details into their Virginia wedding.

Virginia & Ron’s Personalized, Outdoor DIY Farm Wedding in Virginia

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Photographer:  An Endless Pursuit | Event Planner: MeZo Events | Caterer: Captain Cookie | Flowers: DIYed by Bride’s Sister! | Musicians: Cherry Blossom String Quartet | Event Designer: My Simple Details  | Groom’s Suit: Ted Baker | Videographer: Toy Box Productions | Bride’s Dress: Jenny Packham Bridal | Submitted via Two Bright Lights

From An Endless Pursuit:

This outdoor, country wedding was a glorious day blended together with so many amazing elements that came together in one fantastic story. Virginia and Ron had DIY touches around the ceremony with programs that also served as fans to cool off guests in the August heat.

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^This bouquet was hand-picked and made by the bride’s sister! UH AMAZING!

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They had a Nike-themed ring box to represent where they both currently work and how they met.

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Click inside for SO MUCH MORE of this stunning, rustic Virginia farm wedding from An Endless Pursuit!

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